I use two services in tandem that let me manage my naughty tweets in one profile and the rest of my professional friends in another. It’s quite easy when you get the hang of it, using entirely free sites. The best part of twitter is that as you expand your presence on the other social networks, you can usually feed your tweets right into them so you are updating all your profiles with one message:

1. Set up a hootsuite.com account and add your two twitter profiles. Add their hootlet button to your browser bookmarks bar and when you want to tweet a site, it lets you choose which profile to tweet from, without ever having to log into hootsuite at all.
2. I use www.zannel.com/stacieadams for posting my videos and photos. They don’t seem to have xxx content restrictions, but I haven’t tried anything really naughty there yet. I set it to post to twitter whenever I upload, and I can even email content to it from my phone. You can do same on flickr, but I couldn’t get it to integrate with twitter after many attempts.
3. I use tweetdeck.com to organize twitter followers into groups based on various criteria so I can look at the different streams separately. Very handy.

I feel like I need a ticker to scroll across the lower third: Not this ugly IRL.

So, for those of you who have wanted to play with webcams as part of your sexual exploration or working on improving your body image, I amend all my previous writing about webcams to add this suggestion: invest in a good webcam or video camera that you can plug in and use separately from the integrated cam.

The on-board cam is great when in stealth mode (coffee shop, airport, office) chatting with people I already know (because, of course, they know I’m pretty IRL, LOL). But as a first impression in an adult cam room? No thanks!

This is the one I use:

Besides, sex supplies do make wonderful gifts. Like books and DVDs, your recipient can enjoy them again and again. And if you’re giving them to a lover, why, it’s also gift for you and for the relationship. How efficient! Everybody wins! Hey, you could even package them with a copy of Sexier Sex, which is chock-full of creative and practical things you can DO with your new sexy doodads. (Not to mention, it stimulates my personal economy, as every book sold gives me a better chance when I pitch the next one … LOL)

I’m sure all the sex stores have their own gift guides to help you select items for lovers, siblings (yes, sisters give each other vibrators), friends. My personal preferences, for gifts, lean toward quality and beauty in equal measure. Especially toward items a person might not buy for themselves. I’ll list some brands below, with the caveat that some are (significantly) more expensive than others, and that some are more effective than others depending on how you use them. That is, an Elemental Pleasures vibrator or an Eroscillator deliver more effective vibrations than the rubber duckies at Big Teaze, but they’re also several times the cost and are much more serious than a black rubber duckie in a purple boa. Likewise, I have a beautiful LELO vibrator with flowers painted on it that feels wonderful in the palm of my hand whether it’s on or off. I feel sensual and romantic when I stroke it, but it doesn’t do much for me as a vibrator.

My list mostly links to the brand website; you can get most of these products from various sex stores, or from Amazon or Drugstore.com. Note that these are not the only great sex gifts available. They are items I’ve used personally and feel good about recommending.

In order only of memory, not of preference:

Big Teaze Toyz cute vibrators
OhMiBod music-driven vibrators
nJoy stainless steel toys
Liberator shapes
Monkey Rocker gliders
ForYourNymphomation toy storage
Natural Contours pretty vibrators
LELO pretty vibrators
Onyx Game
Bliss Game for Lovers
Tantus dildos
O’my flavored lubes
JT Stockroom leather ‘n’ more
Kink.com subscriptions
The Guide to Getting It On (new edition)

Edited: I thought of more nifty sex-tech during dinner…

Aneros toys
Fleshlight male stimulator
Logitech webcam and Skype (free!)
RetroRaunch vintage porn subscription
Click Fore Play erotic audio drama (with sexy British accents)

Tons more, but I don’t want to keep adding things, especially if that makes this post go out on the feeds over and over again. Please feel free to add your sex-tech wish lists/recommendations in the comments!

Hot.

My hopelessly Californian ears can’t identify the type of accent other than “sexy British” but honestly that was enough for me. These aren’t stories read aloud or moans and panting with the occasional dialog thrown in — these are scripted radio dramas that just happen to be erotic, and each lasts about 12 minutes. They’ll be a nice addition to the old-timey Mystery Theatre podcast that keeps me company on the road between Los Angeles and San Francisco.

Our plays, which last around 12 minutes each, are designed to set your imagination running into all sorts of places and situations. As each one builds to its climax through thoughtfully devised plots, many of which could happen to you, you will picture in your mind’s eye each character and feel what they are feeling, such is the power of the stimulated mind. Some people describe our plays as porn, and they might be right, but we believe that it’s the classiest form of pornographic entertainment on the web

They also pay 50 pounds if they produce your scene.