If you have stepped outside of the rules of “normal” for your culture, you have probably become attuned to language that reinforces those rules.
For example, I never realized how monogamy-centric the majority of American fiction is — books and movies — until I delved into adult communities online. There, many people explore alternative relationship [...]

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I guess now I know why no one tries to pick me up in Facebook. According to Top 10 Social Networking Pickup Tips on AskMen, you are all avoiding me because I don’t list a relationship status in my profile.
“Anyone who has ‘it’s complicated’ or worse yet, doesn’t list a status at all, might have [...]

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Debby Herbenick gives the iPhone 4 and FaceTime video chat a turgid, throbbing thumbs up as a cybersex platform. I’ve been taking another look at the current options for teledildonics, so of course my first thought was “sounds great, and will it work with the OhMiBod?”

I figured it would, as the OhMiBod toys vibrate [...]

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iPhone users have more sex partners than Droid users.

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